Comments on Advance Indiana™: Mishawaka Catholic School Says No To Same-Sex Prom Guest

No, he didn't. But I am sure you got yours from a...

2007-05-03T10:14:00.000-05:00

No, he didn't. But I am sure you got yours from a Dobson pamphlet. No wonder my hair is gone, from tearing it out over the lunacy pushed as historical truth.

Nearly all the founding fathers expressed some type of faith. But they were ADAMANT about keeping ONE Faith or denomination from dominating all the others.

Like it or not, YOUR Faith may not jive with mine. And the Bill of Rights was set up specifically to make sure that YOU cannot control MY practices.

It also means that in the public space, all have equal access to all accommodations.

But this school can do whatever it likes. It's private.

Not everything rises to the level of discrimination (that can be tackled by public bodies). It's clearly discrimination, but when you enter a private school, you choose to abide by their rules. Suck it up or change the rules FROM WITHIN.

7:27 must have gotten his history from a billboard...

2007-05-02T19:51:00.000-05:00

7:27 must have gotten his history from a billboard.

The Metropolitan Community Church is OK with homos...

2007-05-02T19:46:00.000-05:00

The Metropolitan Community Church is OK with homosexuality - the Holy Roman Catholic Church thinks its an abomination. Let them "duke it out" -- it's NONE of the American government's business to take sides in such church disputes. To make law based on a one-sided theological viewpoint is unconstitutional.

When is Brian Bosma going to try get a law passed proclaiming the Pope is indeed quite fallible? That's be just as wrong as SJR7 passage based on some religious text!

Anon 6:43, I don't know whose US History class you...

2007-05-02T19:27:00.000-05:00

Anon 6:43, I don't know whose US History class you attended, but you need to go back.

Jefferson, Franklin, Barr and JQ Adams, in their personal writing, decried the over-reaching attempts at dominance by the mother Church of England. They specifically said, on multiple occasions, that any faith, and NO faith, would be acceptable, for the new nation. They worked hard to make sure the Constitution recognized that.

Let's stick to facts, OK?

>THAT is the exact situation the founding fathers ...

2007-05-02T18:34:00.000-05:00

>THAT is the exact situation the founding fathers were afraid of and why there should be a distinct line between the pulpit and the politician.

Proving yet again that people on this blog will jump through all kinds of hoops to change history. Most of the founding fathers were very active Christians who saw Christianity as a key component of our society. The concern back then was about one Christian church being mandated over another Christian church, as had been done in England. This language about "distinct lines" is a modern phonomenon. Their language was "establishment."' Very, very different.

"...groups like MCC who are trying to interfere wi...

2007-05-02T16:51:00.000-05:00

"...groups like MCC who are trying to interfere with and change the Church

By MCC do you mean Metropolitan Community Church?

If so, you do know that MCC is a church, right? Or do you only define "Church" as the one that conveniently matches your world view?

THAT is the exact situation the founding fathers were afraid of and why there should be a distinct line between the pulpit and the politician.

Thanks for heeding the advice, Donna. This discus...

2007-05-02T13:47:00.000-05:00

Thanks for heeding the advice, Donna. This discussion will be better as a result.

Kinda hard to get all lathered up over this.It's a...

2007-05-02T13:25:00.000-05:00

Kinda hard to get all lathered up over this.

It's a PRIVATE school for a reason. I don't agree with it, which is why I send my kids to PUBLIC schools.

And there had better not be a dime of public money flowing through that school.

I believe some youth groups, like IYG here, sponsor proms for gay students. And I'd bet they're more tolerant of those who are different, than most schools are vice-versa.

Poor poor Anonymous 12:22 PM We'll pray for you.

2007-05-02T12:48:00.000-05:00

Poor poor Anonymous 12:22 PM

We'll pray for you.

Poor, poor Donna,I know you actually think you are...

2007-05-02T12:22:00.000-05:00

Poor, poor Donna,

I know you actually think you are making some sort of point, but so far you are not. All I can interpret from your post is that the situation at Marian may be a very good reason why these goofy ordinances should not be passed. If a Catholic school's prom attendance policy might possibly be impacted by such things, then they ought to be repealed immediately and no others ever passed again. Even the advocates of such ordinances have argued repeatedly that churches would not be impacted by them. So what else could you mean?

But surely - surely! - that was not your point. Perhaps you should either try again (third time's the charm?), or maybe you should heed the previous advice and avoid original thoughts.

Poor poor Anonymous 10:59 Advance Indiana said... ...

2007-05-02T11:26:00.000-05:00

Poor poor Anonymous 10:59

Advance Indiana said...
"I have no problem letting them practice their faith. The story was published in the South Bend Tribune. It's the church which keeps invoking itself into these public debates. The archdiocese with jurisdiction over this school intervened last year
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to kill a human rights ordinance before the South Bend city council.
The church invoked itself into the gay marriage debate, supporting a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriages and other rights for unmarried couples. "
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Poor, poor Donna. You really should stick to your...

2007-05-02T10:59:00.000-05:00

Poor, poor Donna. You really should stick to your pattern of responding to others. Your attempt to offer an "original thought" made no sense whatsoever. Did you even read it before hitting the "publish" button? For your sake, I hope not.

This is a bit off story but to be clear on what th...

2007-05-02T10:44:00.000-05:00

This is a bit off story but to be clear on what the South Bend Human Rights Commission ordinance is all about:

"It is the public policy of the City of South Bend to provide all of its citizens equal opportunity for education, employment, access to public conveniences and accommodations, and acquisition through purchase or rental of real property including, but not limited to, housing, and to eliminate segregation or separation based solely on race, religion, color, sex, disability, national origin, or ancestry."

"based solely on" is the key. Where is someone to go who has been denied housing or terminated from employment "based solely on" their sexual-orientation? Is this more just than doing the same "based solely on" someone's religion? An individual who is discriminated against "based solely on" their religion can seek help through the SB Human Rights Commission. A person discriminated against because of their sexual-orientation has absolutely no place to seek help.

The fear from the church and opponents was that including sexual-orientation in the ordinance would lead to same-sex marriage and polygamy for which there is no basis. So to error on the side of "fear" rather than humanity it is far better to disenfranchise human beings.

Geez, you do know why they didn't buy single ticke...

2007-05-02T10:31:00.000-05:00

Geez, you do know why they didn't buy single tickets. The girl IN the school can go, the one who graduated could NOT. (NOT a student any more. ) Besides they ALWAYS charge more for single tickets, to encourage the idea that it's a COUPLES dance and you're a loser without a significant other.

Simple. Not hate. Just policy.

OF COURSE, AI is blasting the church. Or stated m...

2007-05-02T10:12:00.000-05:00

OF COURSE, AI is blasting the church. Or stated more accurately, he is TRYING to blast the church. Why? Because he hates the church. Sure, he'll claim otherwise. But look at his post at 8:47 for one simple example.

AI writes: "It's the church which keeps invoking itself into these public debates."

What in the world do you expect?????? The Church has been trying since it was founded to impact public policy. Indeed, that is true of almost every religion. And whether AI likes it or not, the Church has had an incredible influence on forming the society in which we all live. To suggest otherwise or to fail to see this, as AI so often does, is to admit a gross misunderstanding of history. Not religion, which he also misunderstands, but HISTORY.

Yet, as the Church continues to do what it always has done, it is actually AI and groups like MCC who are trying to interfere with and change the Church!

Marian High School doesn't deserve accolades for this situation, so I won't offer that. All they did was follow a common and very reasonable policy. Had they deviated from that policy, they would have deserved a grand does of criticism. Of course, people like AI would have cheered them loudly for violating that standard and for failing to uphold a standard that is inconsistent with Church expectations.

Again, as is far too common here, the hyprocrisy is overwhelming.

Sadly, too many churches try to intervene in MY li...

2007-05-02T09:02:00.000-05:00

Sadly, too many churches try to intervene in MY life but when I object, I am accused of trying to persecute them for their religious beliefs. Victimology 101.

This has got to stop!

I have no problem letting them practice their fait...

2007-05-02T08:47:00.000-05:00

I have no problem letting them practice their faith. The story was published in the South Bend Tribune. It's the church which keeps invoking itself into these public debates. The archdiocese with jurisdiction over this school intervened last year to kill a human rights ordinance before the South Bend city council. The church invoked itself into the gay marriage debate, supporting a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriages and other rights for unmarried couples.

anonymous 7:39"What’s next? An article blasting th...

2007-05-02T08:35:00.000-05:00

anonymous 7:39
"What’s next? An article blasting the church because they do not allow the students to have abortions or some other attack on church’s other views concerning sex?Mr. A/I..I like your site, and support your position on gay rights but you need to let people practice their faith in peace."

I read AI's post twice and I didn't see any "blasting" taking place. AI is simply relating what took place at Marion High School.

True, Marion High School is a private school and the administrators have a right to run their school according to their religious doctrine. Times are changing and not every child attending Marion comes from a "traditional" family. There are students of different faiths, students with one parent, students with divorced parents, etc, and probably students with different sexual-orientations. I understand their stance based on the Catholic doctrine. I am Catholic but I don't believe two same-sex students who want to attend a prom is going to corrupt and make my child "gay".

This story isn't even about two students who are "gay", they just want to go to the prom together. The message this sends is that in the future to avoid this hassle they only need to get two single tickets then go together anyway.

Personally, I would much prefer that administrators put more time and energy into a creating a better music program at Marion.

anon 7:39 - This girl wasn't trying to bring the g...

2007-05-02T08:33:00.000-05:00

anon 7:39 - This girl wasn't trying to bring the girl as her date. The school sold singles tickets and she simply wanted to enjoy the evening with a friend who happened to be a girl.

Think girls night out.

A good example of how paranoia over gays really does have an effect on straight folk as well.

... and if a "church" opposes 'racial-mixing' and ...

2007-05-02T07:58:00.000-05:00

... and if a "church" opposes 'racial-mixing' and refuses to allow students with 'one drop of Black blood' to enroll, that'd be OK with you too? What if a Catholic school refused to allow Episcopalian, Buddhist, Jewish or Muslim students to enroll? Where does society draw the line in letting bad behavior be permitted by excuses of religious doctrine?

Polygamy was a core theological tenet of the Mormons but nevertheless illegal. The Mormons officially dropped it eventually after legal and societal pressure...

It’s a catholic school and they are bound to follo...

2007-05-02T07:39:00.000-05:00

It’s a catholic school and they are bound to follow church doctrine. Obviously the school officials feel that this "date" is inappropriate for a school function. And they have every right..it's a private school. What’s next? An article blasting the church because they do not allow the students to have abortions or some other attack on church’s other views concerning sex? Mr. A/I..I like your site, and support your position on gay rights but you need to let people practice their faith in peace. If this girl wants to do things like bring a special friend to school functions then she should have enrolled in a public school.